If you thought you knew everything about sensual lovemaking, we bet you don’t…
The eyes have it
Keep your eyes open during the entire erotic encounter. Let your eyes feast on her face. Well, okay, if that all sounds like gibberish then just make eye contact with her - it’s wildly intimate and very romantic.
Take your time
See it as the ultimate “love-athon” but without the aim of beating Carl Lewis. Feel yourself settling into the rhythm of each other’s bodies, not dictated by early morning alarm clocks or pots boiling on the stove. Set aside hours to climb the sensual peaks and troughs of your lover’s body.
Dynamite without the explosion
Ever heard of the Karezza Method? The end result - get this - isn’t orgasm. The aim is to relax and enjoy mutual touching. In fact you are only meant to orgasm when you want to conceive a child. It’s the iron man of lovemaking: endless, gruelling and designed to keep you hard for a long time to come.
Pre-foreplay warm-up
Get her in the mood by conducting foreplay before the foreplay. Write her a sensual love story which you leave in an envelope in the car. In it she’s a beautiful princess and you’re her suitor, determined to spend a night of passion with your lady love. Remember it’s sensual, it’s romantic and you’re in charge of creating the anticipation (half the secret of an incredible love-making session).
When you finally begin making love, touch those parts of her that you seldom touch during the run-of-the-mill sex act, such as her eyelids (tip: make her close her eyes first), cheekbones and contours of her lips. Touch the base of her spine, between her shoulder blades, the tip of her nose, her knees - parts of her that are seldom stroked.
Constant touchIf you’re going to give her a sensual massage, make sure that you always keep one hand on her body; probably something to do with the transfer of energy. But, more simply, it just keeps the two of you constantly physically connected.
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